Poor guy

I know this friend few years ago from a state that culture is a lot different from the state i born, there is a weird fenomena in that state, people there seems like to blame and talk a lot more than change in order to get better, haiz, culture is not good, when i first meet this friend, i told him change is more important than blaming, if blaming make things better, i would have done the same, he agree with me and start changing, i bring him to a environment to learn positive stuff and let him have a bunch of positive thinking friends, he really start to change, a good turning point in his life, after a period of time, people attracted by his changes, one of them from the girls side even want him to be his boyfriend, that girl actually make all the move and get him, when i go his place to meet him, he bring along his gf to yc with me, he say she got some problem and hope me can inspire her like i inspire him last time, i say ok, but when i meet her, i straight away calculated one day this girl will drag him down so much until he may not able to stand again, time proved i am right, now this guy everyday just playing computer game and doing ordinary job... Haiz...

All the variable i get no one thing is good, you tell me how can they have bright future? Now that girl even jeopardise some of my friends become negative like her, you can see how much negative force she possess, life is about choice, not fate, she choose to be negative and blaming all the time instead of choosing change, i didn't blame her for jeopardise some friendship with some friends because people like her will live a bad bad life, people who negative like her don't need a punishment because she herself is punishing herself, in art of war, we call it 不攻自破, she not just jeopardise her relationship, friendship, chances, but her future as well, anyway, the boy she drag originally is a lazy and playful boy, that boy is quite a slick as well, many times he try to say something not true to me, many times i know but didn't kantoi him because he is my friend and i hope he turn back and change, i start to cheat people since i am standard one, i train myself to cheat since standard one, but now i use this ability to protect myself and my friend that around me instead of go cheat people again because, trust me, cheating people is a life time process and tiring, it will crush you, so i choose to be honest when i understand this point, so, he try to cheat me, he think i am stupid enough for him to cheat, lol, good tries, i have my own formula to check whether you are cheating me or not, come on man, stop humilating yourself, stop blaming and start a new begining la you, wake up la you, you can cheat how long? You are lucky to have me as friend, if give others, they won't find you anymore, i still see something good in your heart and it remains there, just you hide it and don't want to explore it, life is yours, future is yours, your choice...